Most of the time, when the relationships were shaken, the diversion is to have an affair thinking that it can bring the solution. I can totally say that it is very wrong. By having an affair you are creating the chance to worsen your situation. Instead of trying to resolve the problem, you add more troubles. It is very common for husband and wife that if they got problems they will begin blaming each other than finding the best solutions to patch up everything. There are so many reason why broken home have happened. Why marriages can just easily be broke ups while there are so many so solutions to take rather than choosing to have the separations. I see so many marriages that broke up just because of simple arguments in the beginning and keep going on and on, until both ended to decide to put an end. You can see them hurt but they still keep going hurting each other by breaking their family. It is so disappointing because it is not just both of them gets hurts but the kids got the most affected feeling who are so innocent about what their parents been doing for their family.
The feeling of being married but lonely is not enough reason to allow yourself to have an affair with other man. You choose your husband to be with you for a lifetime. Why did you say that you are lonely, maybe because you have something in your mind that you want your husband to have and you cannot find it with him. That’s why you are leading to become a married women looking for men just because there are things missing that you cannot find it with him. But why not ask yourself, what is missing from you then, that you cannot give to your husband. You are evaluating your husband but you are not evaluating yourself. To have a family together it is very important to keep each others respect. When you find something to other men that you cannot find with your husband, do not blame him for that thing. If you see something to other men, why not ask yourself if those men have something that your husband have. As a wife you are misjudging your husband, instead of helping him to keep your family to have the good life for your kids needs. Both husband and wife should have in mind that, no one possesses perfect being. And it is better not to keep evaluating each other and making comparison from other family to your family. Instead, just keep loving each other, just like before both of you decides to love each other together and forever.